"Working with Matt on this journey has been an amazing experience! As a creative, feeling burned out and overwhelmed because of all the backlog and piled up work, is the worst thing can happen to your craft. That’s why I knew I needed help, when we started working together I was already going through a personal and professional journey, changing my habits to become the best version of myself, and he came right in time to help me canalize and establish a system to get rid of backlog.
He helped with so many things but most importantly, he helped me identify the main goals, the priorities and helped me set boundaries and make a plan for each day. It’s not an easy task if you are like me with a scattered brain and adhd, but it’s all about getting on the mindset. And having an accountability partner that helps you stay on track is crucial!
I think we all need this type of coaching program if you lack of organization or a system for success. It is possible, you just have to do the job and keep the reps going!
It’s ok to not being ok, we need to understand that sometimes, we can’t do everything ourselves, we need to learn how to ask for help, to delegate, to let go and to set boundaries.
Will definitely recommend working with Matt to anyone! He listens, he cares, he values the time invested in you, he’s there when you need it! A good friend and professional! Wishing him the best on this new journey in his coaching career 🤟🏽🤟🏽"
There is a thing that happens to us in our 20’s. Its called aging. Your whole life up until 21 is purely designed to get you to 21, you are aging UP, and you are excited! But no one tells you what happens after that. Sure, college and some other small plans start to take effect. But the important stuff, whose guiding you on what to expect with regards to how you feel about growing past all you’ve ever known.
The real rub comes a little later when you’re getting closer to 30.
Its easy to dismiss certain feelings at 21, 22, but you can only tell yourself that you're fine, you’re still young, you have time, for so long. Then, before you know it you are staring at 30. Some of you have made plans and executed on them well, only to find out that they were nowhere near where you thought they should be and now you have to regroup.
Others never got around to making true plans, simply just kept living life day by day. The added “wild card” in this equation as well, is that time IS passing which means its changing, outside of what you’re doing, the world around you is being created at what seems to be an exponential rate.
To quote Abe Simpson –
"I used to be with 'it', but then they changed what 'it' was. Now what I'm with isn't 'it' anymore and what’s 'it' seems weird and scary and It'll happen to you too!"
Now this isn’t said to be a scary omen or anything, more to make you aware that there are so many of us in the same boat and thinking were all alone, or that we’re behind.
Every last one of us feels as if we aren’t good enough from time to time. Or even more regularly. Society has a way of making you look to the future more often than looking at your present moment. And if we are forever looking into a future we will find that we are never satisfied. Its hard to be happy making 50k when you could be making 100k and its hard to make 100k when other people are making 200k.
It is all relative. Confidence builds character, and forward momentum builds confidence. So even if you fail, you succeed or you regroup, as long as you maintain your forward momentum confidence is built making you stronger for the next round.
Truth is we’re all exactly where we need to be to get us to the next step. What I want you to take from this is the knowledge that as you progress through life you will come to many of these moments, moments where you think you’re way too far behind “someone else” or where you think you should be.
Remember, everything is perspective. I can assure you age is entirely in your head. We limit our own movements by thinking a certain way, subsequently we create major leaps by thinking a certain way. You wont think 30 is old at 40 nor will you think 40 is old at 50.
Now’s the time to realize, everything you’ve ever wanted in life is completely attainable if you’re willing to give it time and be completely open to how you achieve your goals.
Life is the long game, with many chapters.
When you’re ready for a momentum or perspective shift, then we are ready to working together. There is no limit to our own potential once we start working in a balanced flow of output, expectations, results and growth.
It may sound hokey, but I am a firm believer that the moment you feel you are at your complete END, that is the moment you’ve just entered a new beginning.
Confidence comes from living through experience and believing in yourself and your abilities. You do not need to settle for anything. If you find yourself in this mental situation know that it is absolutely time to step on the gas. Ten minutes after you have failed or succeeded regardless you are back at the beginning of a new challenge! Embrace that and keep moving forward.
Reach out to me with anything you feel is a priority and I will see how I can serve you. Let’s do this!
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